limerence? you're not obsessed with them, you're lonely.

not in a broken way. But in a human way

you didn't fall for a person. you fell for something you deeply craved.

a new series on why limerence is never really about who it's about.

The Limerence You Don't Notice

On celebrity media, collective obsession, and why your attention is the product

Everyone asked when I was getting married. Nobody asked if I wanted to.

On dealing with societal assumptions and building your own life through that

You don’t attract randomly. You attract what feels familiar

It's a pattern

Why Some Connections Can’t Return to “Before”

The emotional and energetic point of no return that no one prepares us for.

The Four Horsemen of Relationship Negativity — And How They Quietly Erode Love

Sometimes it's the unseen things that matter most

What Self-Love Really Looks Like (And What It’s Not)

It’s not in the price of your Pilates class — it’s in the way you treat yourself when no one’s watching.

When Random Triggers Aren’t Random at All

The Abandonment Wound (and Why So Many of Us Carry It)

Why “don’t leave me” echoes through so many hearts

Defensiveness and Lack of Accountability: Two Red Flags You Can’t Ignore in Love

How to spot these traits in a partner — and how to heal them in yourself